OK, I didn't think this actually ever happened in reality, but it does! And it happened to me, with a guy that is gay, which I don't understand at all.
Last night Jeff and I went with 10 of our friends to a little hole in the wall bar downtown that we really like. One of my friends started dating this guy which he wanted us all to meet. After everyone else had a few I went to the bar to get a drink with my friend Stacy. As we were ordering, this new boyfriend gave Stace a hug and proceeded to grope her! Then he reached around, grabbed me AND a complete stranger at the bar. I was so shocked I wasn't sure how to handle it, but I obviously crossed my arms in front of me so it wouldn't happen again. Unfortunately I was taken off guard a few minutes later and it happened again. Jeff didn't even see it coming either. So my question is, who does that?! And especially if you're gay, what the heck?! I'm going to have to make it pretty clear I'm not going out with that guy present if he continues to act like an idiot. People are so strange.
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He's a creep. Under no circumstances is that acceptable behavior, and you, or preferrably Jeff are more than within your rights to tell him so.
Unacceptable!
That is really odd! I also would not quite know what to think or do.
First as a guy the only preparation for this type of thing has been dealing with external threats...you never expect it to come from within the party.
Second I was somewhere between my third and fourth beer.
Third the guy was obviously operating well outside his alcohol tolerance level.
Like Elaine said, I missed the first time, and the second time it was there and gone before anyone at the table even reacted.
The part that really got me was when the chick he didn't know came over and "to make it even" grabbed his chest and let him "even things out" by touching the boob he missed the first time.
I was just sitting there "Am I high? What the hell is going on?!"
It's like on Coke commercials how guys on a cross-country road trip always manage to find a rave in some barn in Kentucky......that doesn't happen in real life....and yet...she came back for more...this event sponsored by Coke.
Next time I will sit in the bufer seat keeping Elaine's person well outside of a drunk man's reach.
My question to you is, "Why didn't you turn around and slap this guy good and hard on the face?" That may have prevented him from going to your friend and then coming back to you for more. Some people need to be given firm instructions that their behavior is completely unacceptable. No matter if he is connected to your friend. If your friend is really a friend, he would not be upset with you at all for protecting your personal space.
Honestly, I was too shocked to react at the time, but I did have a little chat with my friend the next day and he apologized to me. I told him it wouldn't happen again or I wouldn't spend time with him anymore. I obviously wish now that I would have had the courage and reaction time to respond better, but I can't really change that now! Sigh.
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